My friendship with Leonard began with me invoking the laws of love: the ones that involved the expectancy. "We are one, " I decided shortly after we met. "You are me, and I am you, and it is our obligation to save each other." It took me years for me to realize this sentiment was off the mark. What we are, in fact, is a pair of solitary travelers slogging through the country of our lives, meeting up from time to time at the outer limit to give each other border reports. .Vivian Gornick
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In Stephen King's novel "On Writing" the author explains that his friendship with fellow novelist and fellow "long-time friend" Bill Clinton began with two men meeting up at the outer limit of a large state park. The two writers would spend a few hours together and then each would find their own way back, but they would always be sure to say goodbye at the end.
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